I logged onto LinkedIn to accept a link request, and I see ManFriend very recently connected to an attractive curly dirty blond who works in Hartford CT. Most of his connections I haven't had a problem with because they were recruiters, but this one...I don't see how they would know each other. So of course, I think he is sleeping with her. And while that shouldn't bother me, my belly sank a little. And then I think, OK so he lives in NJ now, that is quite a hike - 2.5 hours. And he was lazy with me - barely seeing me when I lived 5 minutes away, although a previous girlfriend he said lived an hour away and he saw here a lot.
I don't know why my belly sank and I felt the need to write a post and get it off my chest. I know he wasn't even close to being 'the one' and that I wasn't happy. I guess it is the thought of him having sex and 'moving' on before me. But that shouldn't be a surprise...all men seem to move on before I do, and I even told ManFriend last week that I had zero desire to sleep with anyone for a while (and I've had two people ask about my willingness to do so with them).
Update: I wasn't 100% wrong, ManFriend did sleep with her...but like 3+ years ago.