Wednesday, July 25, 2012
Tuesday, July 24, 2012
Friday, July 20, 2012
The people I went with wanted to see Vickie; I was unsure if I wanted my cards read a second time, so I went last. But as everyone was coming out and telling us about their reading, it sounded like she was giving good readings...not that my first reading by her was bad, but it wasn't too informative - then again, I don't have a lot going on.
So my reading:
I have a wedding coming up soon...it is ok not to bring a guest, who knows, maybe I'll meet someone there.
I will have a new lover in 5-6 months, I will meet him when I am with other people, he will be wearing a suit.
Man friend (and she called him that!) is just time to kill. Nothing more.
Before I meet the new lover, I will go on a few dates with someone with a kid. Very short term.
3 major changes coming my way...2 good things, one bad thing. She didn't elaborate.
Someone at my job is leaving in about four months.
My family will have an argument in 3 months.
Money will get better.
I will go away labor day weekend.
I've had only two boyfriends, I don't take relationships lightly.
I will have a short engagement.
There are two children in my future.
I love to spend money.
I'll have one more job.
I am my own worst enemy...she recommended I do something to distract my mind from thinking.
2013 is going to be a much better year than 2012.
I'll keep you posted.
*check under fun for more readings. I've had three tea leaf readings and two card readings at Katie's.
Thursday, July 19, 2012
Mf- late nigh play date? ...
Me- I am glad you think I am a decent lay
Mf- decent? One of the best ever. I can't describe how much I love when we are together
Me- hmm, not bad for an inexperienced gal ...
Me- imagine how much better it would be if actual feelings were involved
Mf- I think about that all the time, it would be mind blowing
Ok, so why did I share that? To tell you that I think our sex is good, it wasn't my style, but I've adjusted to how he likes it. With that, I don't get what I like very often, if at all. I am not bothered by it because it's just sex.
Which brings me to my next point. If something is that good and he claims we have 'a strong friendship' I don't know why he is so reluctant to want to be in a relationship with me. Sure, before we met he had just broken up with someone he was dating for a year. Our non-relationship has been going on now for 8 months, and last month I told him I was ready for a relationship and if he wasn't I was going to start dating. (see, I had a blind date and I signed up for an online site - I am ready!). I don't think manfriend thinks I am actively pursuing this, but he has a little more time; I won't cut ties until I find someone else that starts consuming my time.
Wednesday, July 18, 2012
Tuesday, July 17, 2012
For the makeup, they used an airbrush for the foundation, and what grossed me out was that they used the real wand of the mascara and probably never clean the other brushes. I closed my eyes, I didnt want to get more grossed out, and think about the waiver I signed about them not being responsible for any reactions to the makeup. I would have brought my own mascara bottle - and recommend you do.
My session started and my photographer but me at ease, made me laugh and made me feel sexy; he took about 15 pictures in each outfit.
Once you are done, they first showed you a slide show of all of them, then you go one by one through each to narrow it down for what you'll purchase. The packages were expensive. You pay for each picture you want copyright privileges for, normally this is $160 each, but I got for $90 each and some other discount. I would have loved to get more, but who can afford that? I will get the sideshow, but can't print/download them. It was fun to see the pictures, but also as a huge critic of yourself, I wish I saw them and redid a few...as they didn't come out as great as I would have hoped. Narrowing them down was really hard, I really liked 80%. It was nice to have input from others when they gasped at how nice a picture was or were very silent for a not so good one. So now I just have to wait and then pick up my purchases. Come back soon and I will post a few that I have copyright too.
Monday, July 16, 2012
Sunday, July 15, 2012
Wednesday, July 11, 2012
A few months ago, a bookclub friend told us about this steamy book she was reading - 50 Shades of Grey. While we decided not to read it as a bookclub book, we all were going to read it anyway. Soon after she mentioned the book, I started to hear about it everywhere - the news, other people, store windows, facebook. I read the trilogy last month (not having a computer is making blogging more slow - so my review will not be as comprehensive as it could have been right after I read the books).
After reading the series, I began to talk about it because I had issues with it. I was the only one out of the few friends I know that had negative things to say. People were shocked that I didn't love it. I'll tell you why. Here are my top three reasons:
1. The writing was atrocious. It read like an 8th grade paper, which is great for all those people who stopped reading after school, and finally picked up a book again because of all the hype. On top of the lousy writing, it was way to repetitive. I understand the writer wanted to highlight certain terms or whatever - but reading it over and over and over and over and over was really annoying and distracting. Am I being too harsh? No, just because I read close to a book a week - I want MORE out of my book. There are other books out there about sex, love, overcoming issues, etc. So why was this one so popular? I am struggling to understand.
2. The sexiness. I found that many young people and very naive people enjoyed this part immensely. I am not saying I am very experienced - but I have experimented a little bit and I have about 14 years of sexual experience. I found it to be a bit unrealistic in (many) parts and the WOW factor of the toys was not that shocking to me. I found that I was skimming through the sex scenes because they were not that enjoyable for me.
However, as I was reading it, I could understand why so many people would want more out of their relationships...desire is important (I wrote a post about that months ago). I have no doubt that this will put into people's heads they are not happy in their relationship and start cheating or getting divorced, only to not find what they imagine could happen (remember, this is a fictional book). Sure, there are a few lucky few that have that passion and steam, but a majority of our population will not have that indefinitely. And for goodness sake - don't wait until you read a book to create steam in your relationship...do that for yourself anytime. I struggle to wonder how I am single, when I seem to be the only person who understands what it takes to want/have a very healthy sex life on top of a great relationship (it is not impossible).
3. The story, while not the best, I kept reading. I wanted to finish the series, I wanted to know if it got better and I wanted to be able to talk about the book to other people. After all, I read all the Harry Potters, Twilight & Hunger Games. It is hard not to read a full series, I need closure. I enjoyed book 3 the most because they had a that little bit of action in there.
So there it is. I did not enjoy the books that much.
Thursday, July 5, 2012
I have been eating a lot of cherries lately. They remind me of my childhood; we had a cherry tree in our back yard. While it was great to indulge in this snack, most of the time the squirrels for to them before us.
Anyway, today while eating cherries, I realized what they look like - the head of a penis. Why have I never noticed that before?
Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Want to hear a funny story?
My sister came down to visit for a few days last week; she also went to the doctor and found out she had strep throat and was taking a high dose amoxicillian. I barely saw her because I was so busy, but one evening we were eating and filled the dishwasher. We were going to run it the next day.
A few days later I realize we are out of cups and plates so I empty the dishwasher. A few items were still dirty so I hand washed them, but we've been having some problems with it. I use the forks, cups, and plates. Then the next day, I find out the dishwasher was not run - how could I not know? Well, they really prerinse everything anyway.
Last night I made out with manfriend with a little scratchy throat, but he was willing to get that because 'I am worth it'. But this morning I woke up so sick. I don't get sick days/vacation yet. I had plans with my family friends for the fourth, and was bummed to not go. I went to the urgent care and he said it looked liked strep, and put me on amoxicillian.
What a fun day off from work.
And ok, the story isn't really funny - lesson to everyone...germs stay around a while. Clean those dishes well when someone is sick!
Tuesday, July 3, 2012
Today was the day I thought I was going to meet my future husband. I convinced myself this last night and even showered at night to make sure my hair looked great today. I put on a pretty green dress, brought shoes to work and sprayed a sprinkle of perfume. Yes. Today was the day.
Two of my coworkers and I went out to lunch, surely I'd meet him there? Work closed at 2pm in honor of the July 4th holiday, maybe I'd meet him on my walk to the train.
And it is supposed to happen when I don't care right? So cop#1 and I have been flirting intensely and ManFriend has been very attentive and told me lots of interesting things the last two days. If that isn't screaming I shouldn't meet my fh now, I don't know what is.
But so far today, no future husband. And I find I am quite disappointed.