I signed up, added photos, filled out my profile, answered questions...and matches started to come through. And honestly, I can't keep up. I was a little shocked by this, in my young 20s there was not a lot of interest but now, wow. But I shouldn't be too shocked. I am decent looking and have a lot going for me...well, aside from a job and income. But I also struggle with my weight/size and I feel like many men can't look past that.
I am trying to look at everyone who has interest in me and I try to respond to everyone. While there is a lot of initial interest, it seems like after a few question exchanges it dies down as the weeding out begins.
We will see what happens. I am looking forward to getting out and dating again whether it is from someone online or that I met first in person, and I know that it can still take a few weeks before a date actually occurs. It has been so long since I've dated, and I think I am in the right place mentally now for a greater chance of success.