Tuesday, June 7, 2011

The pretty boy

My meeting in Las Vegas went well.  Next to me was a good looking 'pretty boy' vendor that I talked to a bunch since well, we just sat there for HOURS.  He left at one point to get laid during the afternoon break  - so later at our reception when he asked me if I wanted to have sex, I was a little confused.  Did he mean with his girl? I wasn't ready to share someone in bed.  Perhaps he wasn't travelling with the lady of the afternoon.  One of my goals is to have a legit one night stand - where I don't know someones last name, a complete stranger, etc.  This was my perfect opportunity.  I told him I may be interested and had about 2 glasses of wine but then I chickened out and downed another 2 drinks before I headed for the hot tub.  A little tipsy I decided I needed to feed my belly, and over dinner wondered if I should have just done it. 

On the way out of the restaurant as I headed for the elevators some guy said something, and I turned around and smiled.  He then stops me and asks where I was headed - and I told him I wanted a dessert from this bakery place, so he comes with me and we get a cheesecake - that we share.  I sit and talk to this stranger for 10 minutes as he is hitting on me asking me to hang out with him this night and the next day and I just keep smiling and saying no.  If pretty boy didn't get me - he sure wasn't!  I thank him for the yummy cheesecake and go up to my room to pass out.

I have to say the last 2 weeks has really upped my self esteem.  I haven't been hit on or had so much attention since I was in high school.  I am not used to it and I really don't know what to do.  But I am glad I still 'have it'; that some people find me attractive - and the best part is I was the most causal person in the casino- I wasn't trying to impress anyone.

So, I didn't meet my goal of having a one-night stand, I honestly, I don't know if I ever will.  When I saw pretty boy the next day we continued to flirt and after our conference he hung out with me by the pool for an hour or two.  He was the typical 'sales man' that I blog about how much I hate; their cockiness, their arrogance, selling everything/saying anything to get what they want - but for 2 days when I just sat there at least looking at him helped pass the time.

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