tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6428641622709155357.post5814917350068557199..comments2023-04-13T09:14:39.648-04:00Comments on blah blah blah: not married becauseDenisehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13603697251074621173noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6428641622709155357.post-52708197885981331812013-05-20T00:16:11.770-04:002013-05-20T00:16:11.770-04:00Im with Anonymous here.
There is NOTHING WRONG WI...Im with Anonymous here.<br /><br />There is NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. Men are weird and sometimes get into relationships when they really just want sex. That's what man friend did. He clearly never wanted to "be together" no matter what he said. Period.<br /><br />And "SI" had issues beyond you. He has/had issues that come from his own bullshit that you just happened to get caught up in. He seriously has commitment issues among other things if he is dating two women at once.<br /><br />And for your information, and it deserves all caps:<br /><br />IF A MAN TRULY LOVES YOU, YOUR WEIGHT DOES.NOT.MATTER.<br /><br />Women every day gain weight, or have babies or whatever and their men still love them. Please, please, please do not think this is a reason they're assholes. Somehow you have just attracted men that feel like you are safe, and they can act how ever douchey they want around you, and you'll put up with it (which you have).<br /><br />You deserve so much more Denise. I know its what everybody says and is hard to really focus on, but you have to LOVE YOURSELF before someone else will love you. Its crazy, and I know you love yourself, but at some point you have to realize YOU ARE ENOUGH. If you never meet the man of your dreams, if you never get married, if you are single for the rest of your life, YOUR LIFE WAS NOT WASTED. You are enough. You are a wonderful, beautiful, fun, friendly, kind, compassionate person, and you are enough. Its hard, but once you realize you can live your life alone, and be PERFECTLY HAPPY, is when love will come in. <br /><br />Ramble ramble, and I hope this makes any sense at all. But seriously Denise. If you feel you are being disrespected. WALK. Don't make any exceptions or excuses (helloooooooooo man friend) just walk away. You deserve better. And once you do that, your subconscious will just put that out into the universe, and the universe will bring someone who really deserves you.<br /><br />I love you friend, keep your head up. Have fun and live life. Fuck those douche bags who didn't know what they had, okay?<br /><br />xoxo<br />AnneMcGriddle Pantshttp://www.serenitynowinsanitylater.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6428641622709155357.post-21529399723018648502013-05-19T08:54:41.655-04:002013-05-19T08:54:41.655-04:00It's not any kind of problem with you. You sou...It's not any kind of problem with you. You sound like a very nice person. You just spend too much time with HORRIBLE guys. ManFriend is an asshole. Even if he has some redeeming qualities, nothing could make up for all of the douchey things he's done. There are plenty of other men out there, and it's much better to be single than to be with someone like ManFriend or SI. A bad relationship < being single < a good relationship.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com